Debonair

Definitions: (1) possessing an affable manner; genial; courteous(2) suave; urbane; worldly; (3) jaunty; cheerful; lively; carefree

Derivation: Old French, “of good disposition”

Quote: One’s appearance bespeaks dignity corresponding to the depth of his character. One’s concentrated effort, serene attitude, courteous disposition, thoroughly polite bearing, piercing look – each of these reveals dignity. Such outward appearance, in short, comes from constant attentiveness and seriousness. — Yamamoto Tsunetomo (1659–1719) Japanese Samurai & Buddhist priest

Comment: A boy who is naturally (genetically) debonair is not aware he is special even though his mates treat him with a little more respect or envy. He can grow up and feel privileged or he can treat everyone else with the same deference he enjoys.